I Wont Be an Old Maid

-Perfect- You're the perfect girlfriend. Which
means you're rare or that you cheated :P You're
the kind of chick that can hang out with your
boyfriend's friends and be silly. You don't
care about presents or about going to fancy
placed. Hell, just hang out. You're just happy
being around your boyfriend.


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Four people you will meet in life

Life is the process of finding love, every person will need to find four people in their life.

First person is yourself. Second person is the one you love most. Third person is the one who love you most. And the fourth, is the one you spend the rest of your life with.

In life, firstly you will meet with the one you love most, and learn how love feels. Because you know how love feels, so you can find the person who love you most.

When you have experienced the feeling of loving others and being loved, you will then know what it is you need most.

Then you will find the person who is most suitable for you, to be able to spend the rest of your life with.

Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person. The one you love most doesn't love you; the one who love you most is never the one you love most; and the one you spend your life with is never the one you love most or the one who love you most.

He is just the person who happens to be at the right place at the right time. Which person are you in other people's life?

No person will purposely have a change of heart. At the point in time when he loves you, he really loves you. But when he doesn't love you anymore, he really doesn't love you anymore. When he loves you, he can pretend that he doesn't. Same goes, when he loves you no more, there no way he can pretend he loves you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you must ask yourself if you still love him. If you also don't love him anymore, don't ever not let him leave just to save your pride. If you still love him, you should wish him happiness, and hope that he will be with the one he loves most, not stop him from it. If you stop him from finding true happiness with the one he loves, it shows you already don't love him. And if you don't love him, what rights do you have to blame him for a change of heart?

Love is not possessive. If you like the moon, you can just take it down and put it in your basin, but the moonlight still shines upon you. In other words, when you love a person, you can use another method of possessing the person. Let him become a permanent memory in you life.

If you really love a person, you must love him for what he is. Love him for his good points, and the bad. You can wish for him to become like what you like him to be just because you love him.

If he can change to become what you like him to be, you don't love him anymore.

When you really love a person, you cannot find reason why you love him. You only know that no matter when and where, good mood or bad mood, you will wish to have this person be with you.

Real love is when two people can go through the toughest problems without asking for promises or listing criteria.

In a relationship, you have to put in effort and give in at times, not always be on the receiving end. Being away from each other is a type of test. If the relationship isn't strong, then you can only admit defeat. Real love will never become hate.

When two people are in love, They love to ask each other to swear, to make promises. Why do they ask each other to swear and promise?

Because they don't trust each other, they don't trust their lover. These swears and promises are useless. "'Till the sky falls, till the ocean dry, my love for you will never change!" We all know that the sky will never fall, the ocean will never dry. Even if it happens, are we still alive by then?

Be careful when making promises, don't make promises that you cannot keep. Swear by things that can never happen, because it can never happen, so no harm just saying it casually. Remember, Swearing by things that can never happen are the most touching!

In a relationship, what you say is one thing, but what you do is another. The one saying doesn't believe. The one listening, also doesn't believe.

Which person have you found so far? In the world so big, which person have you found? And who has found you?

Love is like standing on wet cement;
the longer you stay, the harder it is to leave.
And you can never go without leaving your prints behind.

26 New Terms

1. Assmosis - The process by which some people seem to absorb success and advancement by kissing up to the boss.

2. Blamestorming - Sitting around in a group discussing why a deadline was missed or a project failed and who was responsible.

3. Seagull Manager - A manager, who flies in, makes a lot of noise, craps over everything, and then leaves.

4. Salmon Day - The experience of spending an entire day swimming upstream only to get screwed and die in the end.

5. Irritainment - Entertainment and media spectacles that are annoying but you find yourself unable to stop watching them. The Kris A.-Joey M. brouhaha is a prime example.

6. Chainsaw Consultant - An outside expert brought in to reduce the employee head count, leaving the brass with clean hands.

7. Career Limiting Move (CLM) - Used among microserfs to describe an ill-advised activity. Trashing your boss while he or she is within earshot is a serious CLM.

8. Adminisphere - The rarefied organizational layers beginning just above the rank and file. Decisions that fall from the adminisphere are often profoundly inappropriate or irrelevant to the problems they were designed to solve.

9. Flight Risk - Used to describe employees who are suspected of planning to leave the company or department soon.

10. 404 - Someone who's clueless. From the World Wide Web error message "404-URL Not Found," meaning that the requested web page could not be located. Used as in: "Don't bother asking him... he's 404, man."

11. Generica - Features of the American landscape that are exactly the same no matter where one is, such as fast food joints, strip malls, subdivisions. Used as in: "We were so lost in Generica that I forgot what city we were in."

12. Ohno-Second - That minuscule fraction of time in which you realize that you've just made a BIG mistake.

13. Percussive Maintenance - The fine art of whacking the crap out of an electronic device to get it to work again.

14. Umfriend - A sexual relation of dubious standing or a concealed intimate relationship, as in "This is Dylan, my...um...friend."

15. Body Nazis - Hard-core exercise and weightlifting fanatics who look down on anyone who doesn't work out obsessively.

16. Cube Farm - An office filled with cubicles.

17. Idea Hamsters - People who always seem to have their idea generators running.

18. Mouse Potato - The on-line, wired generation's answer to the couch potato.

19. Prairie Dogging - When someone yells or drops something loudly in a cube farm, and people's heads pop up over the walls to see what's going on.

20. SITCOMs - What yuppies turn into when they have children and one of them stops working to stay home with the kids. Stands for "Single Income, Two Children, and Oppressive Mortgage".

21. Starter Marriage - A short-lived first marriage that ends in divorce with no kids, no property and no regrets.

22. Stress Puppy - A person who seems to thrive on being stressed out and whiny.

23. Swiped Out - An ATM or credit card that has been rendered useless because the magnetic strip is worn away from extensive use.

24. Alpha Geek - The most knowledgeable, technically proficient person in an office or work group.

25. G.O.O.D. Job - A "Get-Out-Of-Debt" job. A well-paying job people take in order to pay off their debts, one that they will quit as soon as they are solvent again.

26. Yuppie Food Stamps - The ubiquitous $20 bills spewed out of ATMs everywhere. Often used when trying to split the bill after a meal at Matteo's: "We owe $14 each for the bar bill, but all anybody's got are yuppie food stamps."

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I will never be free from your embrace

im still in the office beating another deadline for tomorrow. this time it's not a programming job but a documentation job! this is one of the things i hate about being a programmer... having to document all the stuff you put into the system just when you thought everything is done. i could not neglect it though because the client is expecting it next week. our boss is scheduled to leave on friday and he's supposed to bring along what we have finished so that means we need to work extra fast to make it to tomorrow's deadline.

my head is really aching. i can hardly think. ive been doing this documentation thing for the past few days. look... it's not just the ordinary documentation of java codes but it's a system documentation including the sequence diagram of the actions ive done for the modules. whew!

anyways, HH wont be picking me up because he had to go to church tonight. that means i have to go home alone and commute... sad =( . btw, my uncle and aunt from australia came home saturday last week. we were all surprised with their arrival because they never told anyone that they were coming home. they brought home some angus beef. so the past days weve been eating steak for dinner. hehehe. they went home because they will be attending the Sinulog Festival in cebu. My mom is coming along with them to cebu. Too bad i had used my vacation leaves earlier so i wont be able to join them. =( There goes my cebu vacation dream! On the lighter side, i wont be hearing moms nags for 2 weeks. hehehe.

i watched LOTR last sunday. It was the best film of the trilogy. i want to watch it again sometime this week when my deadlines have passed. Legolas is still as cute as ever. Now i noticed Aragorn is also goodlooking. im also encouraged to read the book. the problem is, how can i find all the books not only the trilogy?! Another great job of Peter Jackson.

anyways, i better go home before i collapse from my seat.

23 QUESTIONS with 23 ANSWERS

1. looks or charm?
Charm!

2. love that never was or love that could've been?
love that could have been..

3. end up with a person who has everything you want and looking for, or end up with someone you totally connect with?
someone i totally connect with. what will i do with someone who has everything i want and looking for if im not the person who has everything he's looking for.

4. be with a person you have lots in common with, or someone with a different personality from you?
be with a person i have lots on common with. compatibility still matters.

5. an inner bad boy/girl or an inner good boy/girl?
An inner good boy of course. i dont want to be with someone i thought is good but later finding out he's a bad ass guy.

6. smart or funny?
funny not in a dorky way. i want someone who can make me laugh.

7. a person more adventurous or a person more laid-back?
someone who is laid back but still be interesting.

8. think first before falling in love; or fall in love first, think later?
think first befor falling in love. i used to be the other one but i guess ive already learned my lesson.

9. give up everything for love or give up love to live your dreams?
give up love to live my dreams. i hope in time i can change my mind.

10. when you found someone you love; would you get into a relationship with that person knowing for sure it wouldn't last, or just be friends with them so that he/she will always be there?
get into a relationship with that person knowing for sure it wouldn't last. relationships sometimes dont last but i would still take the risk. you wont know unless you try.

11. when it comes to love, do you surrender to fate or break away from fate?
surrender to fate. i still believe that someone out there is meant for me.

12. what attracts you most; a person your family likes, or a person your family hates?
a person my family likes of course! why would i trouble myself dating someone who cant be accepted by my family.

13. meet "the one" at first love or have other relationships before finally meeting "the one"?
have other relationships before finally meeting "the one". relationships provides good learning experience so that when "the one" finally shows up, i wont have a hard time handling it.

14. would you fall for someone you can't have, or forget about it and distance yourself from him/her?
just fall in love. it doesnt matter if he doesnt fall for me.

16. when someone you totally don't have feelings for is into you, would you give him/her a chance or not?
nope! i hate making people hope for something they cant have.

17. do you believe true love last forever or true love's forever is whatever length of time you get to spend together?
what? true love's forever is whatever length of time you get to spend together. this is more realistic.

18. believe in marriage or not?
maybe. maybe not. i really dont know.

19. find love or wait for love?
wait for the right love while finding love. hehehe. sometimes you just have to do something for love to find you.

20. would you settle for someone or continue to wait for someone that might never come?
continue to wait.

21. seek approval of important people in your life before you marry someone, or it's your decision and your decision alone if you're going to marry him/her?
my decision alone. but my family needs to know my decision though i dont need their approval.

22. in your relationships, who usually does the breaking up [the rejection, the ditching, the turning down], the other person or you?
most of the time i let them do the ditching. it breaks my heart to see guys cry.

23. making a commitment: easy or hard?
hard. it's something i should think about over and over again.