On Doing the Deed Or Not

What stage in a relationship do you think two people should be at before they start sleeping together?

I am bored here at work and I was looking for a good topic to blog about since my life has been pretty monotonous the past few days. There's nothing really worth blogging besides my birthday and the youth camp last weekend. Anyways, I guess the question above isn't really bounded by any rule unless 1) you are sfc, 2) you value your virginity, 3) scared of getting pregnant.

My "very-SFC" answer would be after marriage. Sex should only be for those who are bounded by marriage and it should only be with your husband or your wife! No extra marital sex! Always be faithful to your life partner.

Now for my non-sfc answer *hehe*... I guess when two people agree on taking their relationship to another level, like to a more serious commitment to each other, then they could probably sleep together. Again, the key there is that there should be a relationship AND a commitment! I know... easier said than done. I know we're only human and sometimes our body rules over our logic and morality. But then, that should not be an excuse to be promiscuous. So what good does it do for the relationship? 1) it builds trust and a deeper connection to each other, 2) you try to please and satisfy each other, 3) you make each other feel better because it releases stress. Now, I am not justifying PMS. It's up to you if you're both ready to share yourself to each other... literally!